You inherited a home. Here's where to start.
It's a lot to carry, especially alongside grief. Very little has to happen today — most of it can be done calmly, one step at a time, in a sensible order.
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What to do first
- 1
Secure the home and notify the homeowner's insurance carrier
An empty home can change coverage.
- 2
Gather the key documents
Death certificates, the will or trust, the deed, mortgage and insurance paperwork.
- 3
Talk with a California estate attorney
Ask about probate vs. trust administration — this gates most other steps.
- 4
Inventory before anything is removed
Photograph every room and flag documents, valuables, and sentimental items.
- 5
Decide together, if family is involved
Agree on who coordinates and what happens to the home: keep, rent, or sell.
The usual order of things
- 1
Secure the home
Locks, mail, insurance, and utilities, so the house stays safe while you plan.
- 2
Find the paperwork
The will or trust, deed, tax bills, and statements — before anything leaves the house.
- 3
Decide what to keep
Give family a chance to choose the things that matter to them.
- 4
Estate sale and donation
Sell what's valuable, then donate what others can use.
- 5
Cleanout
Clear and recycle what's left, leaving the home broom-clean.
- 6
Decide on the home
Repairs, property care, renting, or exploring a sale — on your timeline.
Services that usually help
Estate Sales
A professional team prices and sells furniture, collectibles, and household items, usually over a weekend at the home. It can turn belongings into funds before a cleanout.
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Clearing out a home after a loss, from a few rooms to the whole house. Good providers sort, donate, and recycle what they can before hauling the rest.
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Getting a property empty and broom-clean before a sale, rental turnover, or hand-off. Useful when the deadline is fixed and the leftovers are many.
See providersHoarding Cleanup
Discreet, respectful help when a home has become hard to live in. Specialists work at a careful pace and can handle safety and sanitation concerns.
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Helpful guides
- Inherited a house in San Diego? Start here.
A calm, step-by-step order for what to do first — from securing the home to deciding whether to sell.
- Estate sale vs. cleanout: what's the difference?
Two services that often get confused — what each one does, and when you might want both.
How Doorway helps
Tell us about the home, the help you need, and your timeline. A real person reviews your request and looks for suitable local help in San Diego County. If you're not sure which service comes first, we help you work out the next step.
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A match is not guaranteed. Providers are independent businesses; confirm scope, timing, their quote, and terms directly before hiring. Doorway does not give legal or tax advice.
Common questions
Do I have to go through probate?
It depends on how the home was held and whether there is a trust — a California estate attorney can tell you quickly; Doorway does not give legal advice.
Who pays the mortgage and bills while this is sorted out?
Generally the estate or the person who has taken over the property's obligations — falling behind creates expensive problems; ask your attorney or tax professional about your situation.
When should I clear the house out?
After the inventory and after you know the plan for the home — once items are gone, they are gone.
What does Doorway cost?
Free for families, always. Providers are independent businesses and charge for their own services.