Inherited a Home in San Diego? Your First-Steps Checklist
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The first two weeks
- Secure the home: change or re-key locks if keys are unaccounted for, set lights on timers, and ask a neighbor to keep an eye out
- Notify the homeowner's insurance carrier — an empty home can change coverage; ask about a vacant-home endorsement
- Forward the mail (USPS change of address) so bills, tax notices, and statements reach you
- Order several certified copies of the death certificate — banks, insurers, and the county will each want one
- Locate the will or trust, the deed, mortgage statements, and any homeowner's insurance paperwork — keep them together in one folder
- Keep utilities on (water, power, gas) so the home stays protected and showable later
The first one to two months
- Talk with a California estate attorney about whether the home goes through probate or is handled through a trust — timelines and paperwork differ a lot, and this step gates most others
- Ask a tax professional about your specific situation — inherited property, property taxes, and any exclusions have deadlines in California that are worth knowing early
- Keep paying the mortgage, property tax installments, insurance, and HOA dues if any — falling behind creates problems that are expensive to unwind
- Walk the home with a notebook before anything is removed: room by room, note what is there, photograph everything, and flag documents, valuables, and sentimental items
- If family members are involved, agree in writing on who is coordinating — one point person prevents most friction
Deciding what happens to the home
- Talk through the realistic options with everyone who has a say: a family member keeps or moves in, rent it, or sell it
- Get a clear picture of the home's condition — deferred maintenance and clearing costs affect every option
- Do not rush the clear-out. Once items are gone, they are gone; inventory first, decide second
Clearing the home, when you are ready
- Sort into four groups: keep, family, sell or donate, discard — room by room, not all at once
- For a home with significant belongings, an estate sale can offset costs; for a home that mainly needs emptying, a cleanout crew is faster
- Set aside anything hazardous or restricted (paint, chemicals, medications) for proper county disposal
- Keep a simple record of what was sold and for how much — executors and trustees are glad they did
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